And just like that it was over. I spent days, weeks, months maybe years? What just happened? Though the memory is just a blur now, in the moment it sure was fun I think. Bodies are everywhere. Breathing and moaning are playing in surround sound. Feet, elbows and hands are moving over the bed like tentacles oops, is that one hairy?
“WTF Just Happened?” Your First Play Experience in the Swinging Lifestyle
One of the biggest misconceptions from those outside the swinging arena is that women are forced into the lifestyle by their husbands or partners. Granted, one spouse might bring up the subject of swinging, but maintaining an active role in the swinging lifestyle is definitely a consensual agreement between both partners. Would I have ever given swinging a try had John not already been involved? Probably not, as I never even knew there was such a thing. Am I glad I gave swinging a try?
Verified by Psychology Today. The Swinging Paradigm. I hear this often from people who know of my research with the swinging population, which they consider deviant and suspicious.